Change is hard and waiting to change can be harder still. Sometimes the act of “ longing” can be addictive because it requires little from us to stay stuck and be angst ridden. I say “addictive” because we are use to staying in that angst and although uncomfortable it offers familiarity and some amount of certainty. We know this place of either not having to risk failure or success.
We can wait and we can also ask ourselves “ if not now then when?”